Why Not?
The Questions , The Answers.
Don't you sometimes find yourself asking yourself questions that you cannot answer. Or Answers that you do not want. It's weird how things work, and things can change so fast. It's like honestly don't blink because you might miss something. I think we spend a lot of time searching for answers that are not there, we try so hard to get to try and get to the answer we want but we cannot change the inevitable. " Everything happens for a reason" I say this with a smile because at times i feel like it contradicts itself, or at least we contradict ourselves. I understand the concept of some things are definitely suppose to happen, but then again some things just should not happen.
You ever look at your life and think about how different it would be if you were with someone else. Or if you would have done this instead of that. Indeed we all do it ! A lot of people think about one situation too much or on one aspect of their life, but that's exactly the kind of thinking that gets you caught up. When you get stuck in a moment, it kinda takes control of your life. You spend a lot of time thinking of ways to change the situation because in reality the only problem is that you cannot accept change. Change is like the things the we hate the most ! Especially when the change as most change happens comes out of nowhere. We would rather be prepared for changed rather than it smack us in the mouth !
It's like we want a warning, but it never happens that way. I believe that in matters of change if we become adapt to handling it the proper way a lot of things would become easier. They say you never really change who you are, you either increase or decrease as a person. I hold my owns truths to that, by way of my own personal experiences. But how true is it for you guys? Do you think that we remain the same person?
To me being able to accept change, let's you take control of your life ! When you become to take responsibility for what you have done to cause this change, or even if you did nothing to cause the change even be able to say " Okay, it didn't work out. So let me try something new" you take the situation and you make it fit in your hands. Rather than thinking " Things happen for a reason" and leaving it at that, and making yourself question everything, take control and accept it for what it is. I believe it makes you feel better, and you grow as an individual. I like to think that we all have the ability to change and grow up ! But than again we live in a time where life is truly not promised, and instead of dwelling on the past we should re-evaluate the important things in life and leave what's done, DONE !
Don't you sometimes find yourself asking yourself questions that you cannot answer. Or Answers that you do not want. It's weird how things work, and things can change so fast. It's like honestly don't blink because you might miss something. I think we spend a lot of time searching for answers that are not there, we try so hard to get to try and get to the answer we want but we cannot change the inevitable. " Everything happens for a reason" I say this with a smile because at times i feel like it contradicts itself, or at least we contradict ourselves. I understand the concept of some things are definitely suppose to happen, but then again some things just should not happen.
You ever look at your life and think about how different it would be if you were with someone else. Or if you would have done this instead of that. Indeed we all do it ! A lot of people think about one situation too much or on one aspect of their life, but that's exactly the kind of thinking that gets you caught up. When you get stuck in a moment, it kinda takes control of your life. You spend a lot of time thinking of ways to change the situation because in reality the only problem is that you cannot accept change. Change is like the things the we hate the most ! Especially when the change as most change happens comes out of nowhere. We would rather be prepared for changed rather than it smack us in the mouth !
It's like we want a warning, but it never happens that way. I believe that in matters of change if we become adapt to handling it the proper way a lot of things would become easier. They say you never really change who you are, you either increase or decrease as a person. I hold my owns truths to that, by way of my own personal experiences. But how true is it for you guys? Do you think that we remain the same person?
To me being able to accept change, let's you take control of your life ! When you become to take responsibility for what you have done to cause this change, or even if you did nothing to cause the change even be able to say " Okay, it didn't work out. So let me try something new" you take the situation and you make it fit in your hands. Rather than thinking " Things happen for a reason" and leaving it at that, and making yourself question everything, take control and accept it for what it is. I believe it makes you feel better, and you grow as an individual. I like to think that we all have the ability to change and grow up ! But than again we live in a time where life is truly not promised, and instead of dwelling on the past we should re-evaluate the important things in life and leave what's done, DONE !
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posted by JayyRiveraa at
7:33 PM
5 Comments:
Your such a great writer, with the way you put things !
<3 <3
Dr.Riveraa lol !!!
---> Jenny
i think were constantly changing... what gets me by sometimes is knowing that that's true.. ur blog sounds amazing.. keep it up girl
Yeah that's how i feel, the sooner you learn to accept that we as people are always changing. Whether for the best or the worse, we have to learn that it happens & it is not something that anyone can control.
Change is inevitable it;s goin to happen whether we like it or not.. and you state that clearly and i hear you the sooner people start accepting that the sooner ppl will realize that you have to live life, because its too short and nobody makes it out alive anyway !!
--Cole
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