The Infamous Love

As I gather my thought I realize that most of us have been "in love" & have fallen "out of love" I realize that many of us have experienced heartbreak, and many of us have given up on love. A lot of us haven chosen to lose faith, and hope in ever finding someone else to love. But we cannot give up just yet !

I may not know your position or your situation, but I do know how it feels to have your heart broken and to lose someone you thought you loved and someone you thought loved you back. Before you give up just listen to me, let me just say that it never hurts to know, you only hurt yourself when you don't want to know !

Love is of course universal, and is experienced by all. Every person, every culture, even animals to my understanding have the ability to love. Even though many differences exist between people, the one thing that is the same between them is the "Power to love". Love is a beautiful thing when you have it, it can be the best thing you ever have experienced. It brings you joy that you can not attain anywhere else, it makes you feel a sense of warmth when you surround yourself with the ability to love another. It's the butterflies in your stomach when you see that special someone, it's trying to hide the big smile on your face because they are the only one that can make you smile like that. As i have stated before love is one of the strongest emotions that we as a human race hold, and it should be Cherish and never tarnished. I know it's hard to look at love in such a positive manner because of the battles that we have all come to know in our own personal lives but we cannot take away from the fact that being able to love another is what makes us who we are.

I know that fallen out of love can be devastating, and can really break you if your not ready for it. But to me that is the very beauty of love being able to bounce back and start over again. The ability to have loved, and the ability to love again ! I've learned that love never really fails us, it instead test us. I think that most of us get stuck in a stage in which we believe that once we fall in love with one person we are suppose to love them forever. On the contrary, falling in love for the first time prepares you for the second time, the third time, and so on. I know that we would like to hold on to the belief that it should last forever, but again this is life we are talking about and as we have come to know " life is not, if ever fair". This is not to say that people never find that forever love, because some do and it is because they have come to accept love for what it bring in the greatest times & the toughest times. Falling in love for the first or even second time is never the end, it is only the beginning to this long life we wish to live, but also the short life we have to know.

Love teaches us the lessons of how it feels to love and care for another person sometimes unconditionally. I call it that " no matter what kind of love". No matter where that person goes, no matter who that person is with, no matter what happens from here til than, no matter the obstacles & forces. It's loving someone for everything they are and everything they aren't. Love is valuable to us, we don;t just love anyone, we choose who we love. We choose who we want to be around, we choose who to keep in our lives. I say love is a beautiful thing because it brings two people together, straight , gay or lesbian . Love does not discriminate, it does not have boundaries it simply pulls forces together and make two people as one. One Love ! A lot of us, most of us seem to focus on the negative aspects of love, but to me i believe they only one you can truly find the meaning of love in your life is to think about the positive things that love has brought into your life.

It's not hard to love, it's harder to live this life and not believe in love. See love is our comfort zone, it takes away are weaknesses, it takes away the loneliness we sometimes feel, the vulnerable moments that we tend to have. It makes us feel good, it makes us feel special and wanted. A lot of people lose faith in love and that is were I have to stop you and say " That if you can't learn to love again, you will never be able to truly love yourself & the life you have"


" We love to live, & we live to love" -Jessenia Rivera